Never do these 10 things to your wife.
Women are generally known to be more tolerant, enduring and forgiving in relationship and marriage but not all and not many of them can overlook for long.
Men are usually known with ego and does things in their own ways and with manly feeling most times. Sometimes they please their women and another time, they can be displeasing.
This article is to unveil 10 things any man should not do to thier wives if they wants respect, love and happiness in their relationship or homes. Our acts determine our homes. The 10 things include ;
1. Never stop commending her.
Women generally likes commendation and complements. Commend her dressing, hair, good acts etc. Do not allow others do it for you. Do it yourself if you are not ready to have an invisible personal assistant.
2. Never admire anyone else higher than her.
Look at her up to down and smile. Let her know you still admire her beauty and other good things about her. No matter how you admire any other woman, never see her better than your wife.
3. Never fail to appreciate her. Appreciate her dressing, cooking and for taking care of your home often. Appreciate her after eating her food, after giving you access to her body (It is expected she does the same too). Women love been appreciated.
4. Never stop letting her know how much you love her.
Women like assurance of love. While they spend time with you, they check your heart conditions and feelings. While her physical features goes into the way of diminishing returns, she wants to know if you still love her. While the breasts sag, the buttocks melts, the stretch marks appearance, the bulging of the tommy etc, they need constant assurance that you still love her. Give it to her through words and actions. The word, “I love you” sweetens the heart and it cost only for you to mean it to say it.
5. Never report her to her family members. You might not get the desired results here. The family members should know their daughter and sister but most times might see you in another light. They expect you to love her as she is and bear your cross too. Some family might never accept any faults you are trying to present to them. Some would ever defend and never blame or see anything Wong in their person forgetting that anyone can change and no one is perfect. Solve your problems together and avoid third party as much as possible.
6. Never starve or deny her any desire deliberately. Any desire include the basic things such as attention, sex, care, food, drinks, career, relationship with God etc. Don’t forget that even as much as you don’t starve her sexually, never cheat on your wife with another woman. It disrespects you and her. It also capable of making you lose your wife to another partner too so, don’t do it no matter how good it might look.
7. Never spoil her with pampering and inexpressions. In as much as it’s good to pamper Which means to treat with excessive care, attention or indulgence. This would generate the negative and not the positive. Simply care, consider, satisfy etc but not the excessive. It can be difficult to stop when the aftermath becomes lazy-ness, lack of self control, over dependency etc.
8. Never refuse to lend a helping hands at home. Help your wife for shopping ๐, cooking ๐ช, laundry ๐งบ, baby seat ๐บ etc when you have the time to do so and when you notice her work load , especially a working class wife. Remember, if she falls sick, expenses and stress would be on you largely.
9. Never stay too far away from her. Every woman who loves their husbands wants the husband. If you love something, you want same thing. Same in relationship and marriage. Your wife would want you daily and hourly. You can’t afford it if you must meet the family needs except if you work from home but using your free time and creating time for your family makes the family happy and healthy.
10. Never deny her vision and ambitions. Many women are once dreamers. Your wife possibly grew up with ambition. She might be amongst those who told their teachers that they want to be a Doctor, Lawyer, Engineer, Teacher, Business Tycoon, Architect etc. Getting married to you should not destroy her dream but to fulfil it. Support your wife’s ambition and it might help the family in many ways.
There are more to share but let’s stop here. It is important to note that doing what works for your family is better than one hundred counsels you might receive and knowledge you think you possessed.
Source: Lovemission.
